Experimenting with children’s sexual identityGender benders are consigning more and more disturbed children to the path of sex change on the basis of a shaky philosophy. Adolescents, by definition, are immature people. Once, the pop scientific diagnosis of teenage rashness was all about “raging hormones”. Now, it’s mainly about brains; hardly a week goes by that does not bring new revelations about the teen brain and its unfinished, evolving nature. No-one is really grown up until they are at least 25, we are told.
It turns out that some people have significant lapses of common sense even then. Among them are the mother of 12-year-old Australian girl who is encouraging her daughter to become a boy; the psychiatrist, family counsellor and endocrinologist who support the move; and the Victorian family court judge who decided last December after a two-day hearing that the girl had the right to begin hormone treatment with a view to a complete sex change. It has taken six months for the judgement to be issued. Despite the claim of her lawyer that she is capable of giving informed consent, and a claim that the hormone treatment is reversible should she change her mind, the girl is patently too young to make such a life-changing decision According to researchers, someone of her age has barely begun the process that should ultimately see the higher functions of the brain -- those connected with self-awareness, empathy with others and wise decision making -- wrest control from the pleasure seeking functions that burgeon during adolescence. One has to feel sympathy for the girl’s state of mind. Allegedly she was stressed and anxious at the prospect of pubertal changes. She is said to have once threatened to kill herself if she had to live as a girl. According to one report, her mother is sad about the daughter’s problem but wants to “stand by her”. Another report has a relative claiming that the mother, who has another, younger daughter at home, “brainwashed” the older girl from an early age into thinking she should have been a boy. Her father, estranged from his wife, opposes the sex change. It seems likely that family conflicts played a role in the girl’s gender dysphoria, or discomfort with her given sex. But sympathy alone cannot dictate an adult response. Nor should a philosophy predisposed to see this young girl’s masculine leanings as indicating her real “gender”, as though this could be different from the sex of her body. A genuinely therapeutic, scientific response must take account of the fact that gender dysphoria is usually a symptom of gender identity disorder (GID), a mental illness for which a diagnosis is given in the bible of the American Psychiatric Association, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (DSM IV-TR). “Only a very small number of children with Gender Identity Disorder will continue to have symptoms that meet criteria for Gender Identity Disorder in later adolescence or adulthood,” it notes.
These children can be successfully treated. “The psychiatric literature clearly demonstrates that children with GID can be successfully treated if both parents cooperate in the solution, especially fathers,” says Dr Richard Fitzgibbons, a Philadelphia psychiatrist with clinical experience of such cases. Treatment should begin as soon as possible, he adds. His approach reflects that of Dr. Kenneth Zucker, a psychologist and head of the gender-identity service at the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health in Toronto. Over the past 30 years, Dr. Zucker has treated about 500 preadolescent gender-variant children. In his studies, 80 percent grow out of the behaviour, but 15 percent to 20 percent continue to be distressed about their gender and may ultimately change their sex.
These facts have not prevented gender activists and assorted experts from taking up cases like that of the anonymous Victorian girl and turning them into social and scientific experiments. She is not the first minor to be treated in this way. In Australia her case was preceded in 2004 by that of “Alex”, a 13-year-old girl whom the courts allowed to take hormones to become masculine. Early last year Spiegel magazine revealed that a 14-year-old German boy had been the subject of a similar gamble for two years already. A Dutch team has been conducting a trial involving youths since the late 1990s, according to Spiegel. The prestigious Boston Children's Hospital runs a clinic where children arehelped to change their sex. Behind this activity is a philosophy of the person in which the body carries no essential message to the psyche about sexual identity. On the contrary, sexual identity, or “gender”, is seen as primarily a psychological category which ought to dictate the form of the body. Medical technology has the means to effect this topsy-turvy view of the body, ergo, there is no problem. This is what should be done. And the earlier the better. Last month parents connected with a Philadelphia elementary school received a letter advising them that the guidance counsellor would meet with the school's 100 third-grade students to explain why a nine-year-old boy in their class would now wear girls' clothes and be called by a girl's name. The principal, who had called in TransYouth Family Allies as consultants, wrote that a transgender child is one whose biological gender does not match his or her gender identity -- an explanation that failed to mollify some parents who were angry not so much at the child’s coming out as with the school’s formal endorsement of it. There have been other cases of elementary school children coming out as the opposite sex at school. Paul McHugh, a psychiatrist and professor at the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health who studied sexual reassignment surgery in the 1970s, told the Philadelphia Inquirer there is no evidence that supporting such a transition helps a person. In the 1970s Hopkins was pioneering sexual reassignment surgery but stopped when follow-up showed that although few regretted it, the men who had undergone a sex change were no better off psychologically. “People came to us saying that if we changed them, we’d solve all their problems. So we changed them, and their problems remained,” said McHugh. If anyone really wants to help children suffering gender dysphoria they should look at all the problems in a child’s background. According to research by psychologist George A Rekers in the 1980s, common problems -- for boys, anyway -- are histories of mental illness in the parents, especially the mother, the absence of the father from a young age owing to marital breakdown and the lack of a substitute male model. Rekers says it is not accidental that the questioning of sex-role distinctions and the normalisation of father-absent families have gone hand in hand with evidence of the destructive effects of father absence on children and the accumulation of clinical data leading to the APA’s recognition of childhood GID in 1980. Of course, it is much easier to dose a girl with hormones than do anything about the mess that today’s sexual ideology has made of family life for so many people. But it is clear which way true happiness for children and their parents lies. Carolyn Moynihan is deputy editor of MercatorNet. |
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Ken said...Bravo for telling it like it is. What an upside-down world we are creating for the next generation.
Australia | Thursday, 29 May 2008 at 9:08 pm
The Byzantine Rambler said...This essay exemplifies the confusion that results from relativism at the ethical and social level. Truth is relative, and therefore everything ultimately is relative. One cannot categorically state that x is a boy and y is a girl, since what constitutes maleness or femaleness is considered not objectifiable. Biology cannot be trusted as a source and grounding for definition as it risks “limiting” the options of the hedonistic culture. Once we accept the reaility of boyness and girlness and refuse the irrational policy to misguide a child into crossdressing, we may have to rethink the biological implications of same sex attraction. To reference the old saw, “If there is no God, everything is permissible.” Let us be mindful of that in the upcoming wave of intergenerational, same-sex “marriages”. Lord, have mercy!
United States | Friday, 30 May 2008 at 2:05 am
Darren Hall said...These poor children need more guidence and attention than they’re getting. The doctors should be pointing this out to the parents rather than recommending what is tantamount to
brainwashing and mutilation.
I wonder if a chromosone test would prove anything?
What is truly disgraceful is that the sexual/gay revolutionaries can’t even leave children alone. Androgynous pop culture that generally ridicules masculinity is also to blame.
United States | Friday, 30 May 2008 at 5:28 am
Richard Fitzgibbons said...The Catholic Medical Association’s press release posted at http://www.narth.com criticizing educators’ support of cross dressing of students, based on a supposed diagnosis of the transgender child, a diagnosis which does not exist in the DSM IV-TR, might be of interest.
-- | Saturday, 31 May 2008 at 3:55 am
Gabriel Espinosa said...Richard, the DSM is no longer a valid documenter of mental illness. It can no longer be trusted to portray facts. Therefore, I expect that soon there will be a diagnosis for this silliness within it’s corrupted pages.
United States | Sunday, 1 June 2008 at 10:05 am
Bonnie said...I am an elementary school counselor in my 22nd year. There are times when I am absolutely dumbstruck by the stupidity of my colleagues. I am saddened and angry when I read yet another story of how this profession has become a vehicle for manipulating children into accepting so called lifestyles that are contrary to what I have come to believe is an innate sense of propriety. I have seen far too many children struggle with understanding the many twists and turns that make up our amoral culture.
United States | Tuesday, 3 June 2008 at 6:37 am
Hedaya said...It is obvious that the disintegration of family life is the cause of all these so called confusion of gender. Nevertheless, as in this case, a parent has decided to let her child ‘decide’ what’s best for her. When will parents realize that they are the grown ups in their children’s lives?
Such children are crying out for help, but I guess those who should hear her cry are busy giving her all the wrong solutions. The question to ask would be: “If my child was suicidal, would I give them a gun or poison to kill themselves when the urge hits?”
Kenya | Monday, 9 June 2008 at 5:07 pm
Nike Ramos said...I am bisexual and I go therapy for it. Environment and upbringing really has a lot to do with it but we really need the right spiritual director and a good psychiatrist
-- | Wednesday, 11 June 2008 at 5:40 pm
CM said...Nike Ramos, you are so right. I too suffered from SSA and when I could not take living the life of deception and living a life contrary to the Will of God, I sought out a good confessor and ended up at a “Journey Into Manhood” weekend which although not giving me the miracle cure, did open my eyes to the root problems. I went to therapy, went through several years of pain, but I can say that today I am a normal heterosexual, happily married with kids. Change is possible - don’t let anyone ever dissuade you from that truth. And if change is not for you, then, take it as a cross from the Almighty which will help get you to Heaven. Remember, He never gives us a cross heavier than we can bear!! BTW, to find out about the “Journey” go to http://www.peoplecanchange.com.
Pax Christi,
CM
United States | Wednesday, 11 June 2008 at 11:32 pm
Marcella Coelho said...So we are now thinking that brains define us as men or woman and at the same time we talk about being natural, eating organic and at peace. What a responsability we have as parents. What a task it is today to educate our little ones affections and lead them to a healthy lifestyle. I’ve had 5 children and at the hospital we see pretty much a sleepy boy and a crying girl. I will pray for this mom but I wish we could keep it simple.
Nike Ramos I’m sure you will have the courage and fortitude.
All the best.
Brazil | Thursday, 12 June 2008 at 12:39 am
Nike Ramos said...CM. Thank you.
Philippines | Thursday, 12 June 2008 at 8:09 pm
Angela said...Family and marital breakdown, and confusion about the meaning of sexuality, gender, the body are all at the root of the problem here.
The aggressive sexualized culture swamping our children must also be playing a significant part. I remember most girls’ of my generation being ambivalent about puberty and their bodies throughout adolescence. We led reasonably active and full lives. We helped our families with chores and watched plenty of TV. Puberty complicated relationships and led to changing priorities. Fashion options in clothes and music were diverse but reasonably modest.SIzes 12 and 14 were normal.
That was over 20 years ago, when girls didn’t have to have exactly the same dead straight but miraculously and impossibly glossy hair to be seen in public, didn’t have to have the exact same outfits as their peers, didn’t have to be size 8 or 6 to be acceptable. The list of demands on girls today that must be met to be acceptable are impossible and long. Pre-pubertal girls are increasingly falling prey to body image misery, eating disorders and desire for cosmetic surgery. Young girls shiver through winter lest they deviate form the LA look. Little girls increasingly spend their lives primping and preening themselves or their Bratz dolls because they have to take a lot of time to look good. Ballet/court shoes rather than knock about boots, sandals or sneakers are the routine footwear of girls. Knock about clothes are actually hard to get for young girls- unless one shops in the boys wear department.
Most young adolescent girls are deeply, deeply unhappy with their bodies and appearance all of the time thanks to constant sexualised messages of media, magazines and other marketers.
Is it any wonder that some girls, with familial relationship problems and the support or “professionals” eager to make a point about gender, are sufficiently deeply anxious about puberty to decide to take an escape route out of the prison.
Australia | Monday, 16 June 2008 at 2:28 am
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