Francis Phillips | Saturday, 29 September 2007

Tom Sawyer & Co: an endangered species

A history of American children at play raises disturbing questions about how we treat our kids.

We are familiar with the adage, "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy". But how do we define "play" and why is it so necessary? The author, who is Professor of American History at Brown University, has written a fascinating study of this elusive subject, from the year 1600 to the present day. The age group discussed is between 6 and 12, after early childhood and before adolescence, and the main focus, inevitably, is on the 20th century "when the most important and contrasting developments in the history of children’s play occurred."

Chudacoff quotes with approval the words of that hero and rascal, Tom Sawyer: "Play consists of what a body is not obliged to do." This means the free and spontaneous (unstructured) games that children have always invented and delighted in, when away from adult surveillance. According to Ilona and Peter Opie, historians of children’s games, the activities that flourished were those that adults either did not understand or disapproved. As the author shows, adult anxiety about how children should spend their leisure hours has a long pedigree. He also dismantles the myth of "a carefree childhood" that writers of a certain age love to reminisce about. But then he is studying a whole society rather than the world of Christopher Robin, so has to take account of the many grave factors that have impinged on childhood: poverty, parental death, disease, bondage and cruel adults.

Having written this list I realise that they are all neatly encapsulated in the writings of Charles Dickens – particularly David Copperfield. Yet Chudacoff, like Dickens, notes the extraordinary capacity of children to rise above their drab circumstances and create an imaginative world parallel, yet impervious to the real one, utilising the spaces available to them, whether woods and fields or streets and parks. Drawing on many sources, such as children’s diaries and autobiographies, the author notes that pre-adolescent boys and girls have seldom played jointly together when there was a choice of companions of their own sex, and that dolls, sleds and bows and arrows have long been items of childhood. "Toys" as deliberate artefacts for the young are of recent vintage.

In the period from 1600 to 1800, it is not surprising to learn that children spent much of their time with adults and undertook important duties early in life. Bible reading was an important feature of their lives and it was assumed that adults "had a basic responsibility to guide a child’s natural progress and to thwart bad habits". In the colonial period Indian boys led more independent lives, imitating in their play the skills they would require as future hunters, and slave children had the hardest lives – but they also found loving surrogate "uncles" and "aunts" among the African-American community. More privileged white children had rocking horses, dolls’ houses, kites, stilts, hoops, marbles and bricks, but there was no toy industry as such and children still improvised the props they needed for their games. Recorded memories include much outdoor "roaming" – a word quite foreign to today’s children and their more fearful parents; it gave children license to wander around their locality in groups or individually, for the sheer pleasure of the freedom it gave them, with no sense of being unsafe.

Between 1800 and 1850 workplaces and households were gradually becoming distinct places. The middle classes began to have houses with cellars and attics, with separate bedrooms for children. Yards, empty lots and pastures were still the loci where children of all classes protected their own play culture. By 1850, when almost half the white population of America was under 19, it was becoming more accepted that childhood should be a time of play rather than a rehearsal for adulthood. Between 1850 and 1900 formal schooling began to be the norm. A new cohort of educationists had begun to analyse the requirements of childhood and recognise a child’s instinct for freedom; by the 1880s designated "playgrounds" had appeared in cities and toys had begun to be mass-produced. Even though playrooms were now filled with games, toys and books, Chudacoff notes that "children did what they have always done: adopted play styles that incorporated spaces, things and playmates in their own way."

Commenting on the decades between 1900 and1950, author Robert Paul Smith remarked, "I think we were right about the grown-ups being the natural enemy of kids because we knew that what they wanted us to do was to be like them." Play was encouraged but not "idling"; gymnasiums and youth clubs were organised for working class-children; there were parks, movie houses, penny arcades and candy stores and mass-produced toys such as Monopoly and model trains; in the 1930s came the invention of the chanting jump-rope games for the urban poor, particularly African-Americans. The "sheltered child" syndrome was still in its infancy; we are not surprised to learn that "most children preferred unsupervised byways, yards and vacant lots in which to play." Child psychologists were paying increased attention to children’s games and Walt Disney had begun to dominate the cultural world of the young. For Chudacoff this era was a "golden age" for children.

His final time division, from 1950 to the present day, will be very recognisable to readers. The advent and influence of television was, predictably, enormous. Indeed, the author subdivides children’s play into two eras: before television and after. Toys marketed on TV revolutionised the toy industry; marketers rather than parents decided what toys children wanted – such as the Barbie doll. Unlike earlier dolls, Barbie reflected glamorous consumerism; her shape, clothes, style and general air of nubile precocity introduced a new and not altogether innocent element into play. As Chudacoff details, social trends were also casting a shadow over the erstwhile golden age: more married women were going out to work; there was also more divorce, single parenthood, so-called latchkey children and smaller families – all this in sharp contrast to previous generations.

And so we come to modern children - and what the author describes as the "endangered childhood". He believes that children’s play "has eroded over time" with perilous consequences. Parents are more anxious than in the past about safeguarding children from perceived dangers, in the road, in playgrounds and from strangers. So they ensure they stay within call or in the house, playing with electronic games, watching TV and using the internet, not always wisely and not often supervised. "By the 1970s, a nation that was child-centred and steeped in prosperity began spending millions of dollars on expensive electronic games." The improvised toys and the "roaming" and "roving" that characterised earlier generations had become a thing of the past.

The pressure from middle class parents to have successful and talented offspring has also cut into free time with after-school classes such as music, drama, karate and tennis, so that children have ever less time to mess about and "do nothing". "Helicopter mothers", forever hovering over their children’s activities and guilty about going out to work, no longer feel able to say to their children, "Don’t bother me. Go and play outside." Over-structured and sedentary play has resulted in an explosion of unfit, even obese children, their imaginations formed by electronic, screen-based and virtual reality and unused to learning about their environment, its excitements and its dangers, by inhabiting it in a vital way. Whatever happened to the world of Tom Sawyer and the Famous Five?

The author has produced an absorbing piece of social history of the last 400 years. The most recent decades make uncomfortable reading. This unease is reflected in the frequent articles and letters to newspapers by members of the establishment, calling for a return to the freedom and innocence of childhood. By "freedom" is meant that freedom from constant supervision and restraint that children need in order to develop, just as much as they need healthy food; by "innocence" is meant a childhood not exploited and manipulated by political and market forces. We need again to give children space and time to play outside, to let them roam about and utilise their own play things. Otherwise Jack will indeed be a dull, overweight, listless and depressed boy.

Francis Phillips writes from Bucks in the UK.

 

Comments (12)

Peter Pan said...
The future does not look good if you believe that their should be a return to innocence. I'm afraid that we have eaten from the apple and we can not, on our own return to the garden to play.

Children have become to political, and reduced to an element of the economy.

Those who would attempt to manipulate society at the smallest building blocks treat children like a white sheet of paper, that on which they can write what they want. They want need both parents out working - so get the kids even younger - and write on them sooner! Marriage itself can get in the way - and provide a different picture - so let's undermine the family unit

Kids are now a great economic sector. Of course they need cell phones. Of course they need credit cards. Of course they need to know all about sex ...

and so it goes

The apple has been eaten and we have lost the garden!

Sorry Kids! At least your Mom and Dad let you live.

Canada | Monday, 1 October 2007 at 1:23 am

Doral Hemm said...
This is spot on. During the past century we have taken children out of the mines and mills (at least most of them) and replaced that form of child abuse with another. Today's child abuse includes such things as five A.M. hockey practice, music and dance lessons that the kids don't want, day care instead of parent care, stuffing healthy children full of drugs, treating children as if they are merely diminutive adults, and an endless list of helicopter parenting activities, all of which deprive children of their childhood. And then we wonder why we have an epidemic of obese children, children committing suicide and children committing senseless acts of violence such as shooting up schools.

Canada | Monday, 1 October 2007 at 2:15 am

Michael of Loopland said...
The most telling and true statement in this article is the following: "Helicopter mothers", forever hovering over their children’s activities and guilty about going out to work, no longer feel able to say to their children, "Don’t bother me. Go and play outside." If we as parents were pushed to the limits of our capacities, the way our parents and grandparents were, we would be more natural in our parenting. This push can not be created by both parents working to afford a new Lexus every other year and a new TV in every room of the 6000 sq. ft. house we are killing ourselves to afford, this push can only be created by the expanded hearts of parents who are open to life and who do without what is not absolutely necessary to live a simple life. You can sum up the problem with our kids in one word - contraception. The mentality, not the devices. The answer is as simple as it is difficult. If you want to return to the natural world of childhood freedom, children have to see large families around them, so they will have large families themselves. Not only do large families teach children the vulnerabilities of their mothers (go outside and play) but they also teach children generosity, healthy poverty, forbearance, justice and steadfastness. Until we recognize that all social evils in the world today are rooted in a contraceptive mentality, we are doomed.

United States | Tuesday, 2 October 2007 at 1:16 am

Not so pessimistic mom said...
I have the most sweet and creative girl you can ever imagine. As the article says, we do have constraints of space and care for her security. But that doesn't mean that she can't explore and find every day a new game to play. And if she doesn't have playmates, we play with her. Her dad and I are in the task of preserve her innocence, so that is not 'the impossible task' (even in these days) if you are a responsible and loving parent. The problem with this article is that is too generalistic. The situation has become complicated for parents in the last 30 years, I agree with that, but like with most social problems, the solution starts at home. Sorry for your not so happy childhood, Peter Pan and Doral, I definitively enjoyed mine and I will procure that my daughter will enjoy hers, in a good sense off course.

Colombia | Tuesday, 2 October 2007 at 2:31 am

Doral Hemm said...
Not so pessimistic mom; I don't know where you got the idea that I didn't have a happy childhood. Certainly not from what I wrote. I was born in 1930 and had a very happy childhood. The thrust of my comment is that parents are depriving their children of a childhood. And yes, it's usually because they want a new luxury car every year, a cottage on the lake or a time share in Hawaii....or because they are so egocentric that they couldn't live with anyone else and so are single parenting. O.K., before you start to flame me I will say that there are lots of single parents who didn't choose to be single parents and most of them are doing a good job with their kids.

I'm a retired high school teacher. I can't begin to count the times that I wanted to talk with a student's parents but they were always too busy. Too busy to talk with the teacher of their own child!!! Three or four times each year my school would have a few parent - teacher nights when parents were invited to come to the school and meet with any of the teachers. I and the other teachers would usually spend three hours waiting for a parent to show up. At least 95 percent of the parents would never show up.

Michael of Loopland, I agree with what you wrote.

-- | Tuesday, 2 October 2007 at 12:45 pm

Archena said...
I agree with the gist of the article but to be fair the days of Tom Sawyer are over not only because parents are micromanaging their children's lives - Tom simply didn't live in the deadly world we do. Child murders did happen even then, of course, but not at the horrific level of modern times. It simply isn't safe to let kids wander too freely any more.

Maybe that's part of why parents try to find so much stuff - to try and replace the freedom lost to predation of the human kind. Either way, how we go about fixing that is an open question.

United States | Tuesday, 2 October 2007 at 5:00 pm

Peter Pan said...
As above ..Not so pessimistic mom; I don't know where you got the idea that I didn't have a happy childhood.

That's the point

Our childhood experienece is quite different than today's


By the way, good luck with your task. Be aware that you will need to ..

1) Home school your children so that you can have appropriate nonmanipulative content

2) Not allow your daughter to see TV. The TV programmers have boasted on how they can change a generation

3) Monitor her friends (language and their ideas)

4) Cover her eyes when you enter stores or malls

5) Avoid newpapers

6) Do not listen to 'News' on the radio

7) Worry about what University that they might go to - where they will undo all you have done

8) Worry about what job they will get

9) Hope that whatever religion you follow - that you minister follows a non 'modernist' train of thought
All things that a loving parent can do.

Canada | Tuesday, 2 October 2007 at 11:45 pm

Doral Hemm said...
Archena, you are correct. The neighborhoods are more dangerous than they were 50 or 60 years ago. How to fix that problem? Not easy, but we should start by admitting that we created the dangerous neighborhoods. Then we need to reverse engineer society, one step at a time. Eliminate the negative influences, one at a time. We can have a technologically advanced society as well as a society that is as safe as it was in 1950, but we have to stop blaming some anonymous "they" for our problems. Peter Pan's nine points are pretty good but we have to go beyond that and be community activists working for a safer and more decent society.

And at all times we must put the good of our children ahead of all other goods. Even when it means giving up some of those luxuries and eating cheaper cuts of meat.

-- | Wednesday, 3 October 2007 at 10:09 am

Michael of Loopland said...
It's true parents need to be more careful, but they can also be too careful and they can let their guilt morph into a kind of occupation. Children learn best how to be good adults by witnessing the behavior of their families - not by being manipulated and coddled ad nauseum.

I was born in 1962. In actuality, I'm a late Baby-Boomer, although I graduated from high school in 1980. My wife and I have been married for 21 years and have 10 children. The oldest is 20 years old in her 3rd year at a private university. Our baby is 16 months old. We have 7 children in private schools where they attend daily mass and are instructed daily in sacred hymns. They begin learning Latin in the 6th grade. Neither my wife nor myself graduated from college. She does not work outside the home. We are poor and do without much; but what we do without is not good for us anyway. My children are sensitive to the needs of their family and chip in to reduce our expenses where we can.

Also, we do not need to come up with inventive ways to keep our children occupied - life is busy and it's hard. That's way it's supposed to be; it's also the way things used to be.

All the things Peter Pan listed above are normal things in our life. I can honestly say that, except for PBS (and college football :-), I haven’t seen a prime-time network TV show in 20 years. Not because I'm a prude, but mainly because I'm busy!

See how it works? If you are open to life, God will take care of the rest.

United States | Wednesday, 3 October 2007 at 11:12 am

Peter Pan said...
Thank You Michael of Loopland.

You give us cause to hope - not in a 'thing' or 'someone' -not in a list a nine points - but to hope that God will be our alpha and omega - our hope and our trust.

Canada | Wednesday, 3 October 2007 at 10:32 pm

Doral Hemm said...
Without God we can do nothing. With God all things are possible. At the same time I believe that God expects us to get off our butts and do our share. Nice to know that there still are some people of faith out there.

Canada | Thursday, 4 October 2007 at 10:45 am

David Page said...
There was never a Golden Age of childhood. I grew up in an Irish Catholic neighborhood where almost everyone's father was a functioning alcoholic. There were just as many perverts back then, but we were streetwise and looked out for each other. There was no comfort in the Church. In fact there was danger there too. With rare exceptions, in my case a teacher and a nun, we couldn't, and didn't, trust anyone.

When I hear people talking about the 'good old days' I think their memories are dimmed by time. Let me restate that. They were good, but only because of the loyalty and friendship we children had for each other.

By the way, of the two books, (Tom Sawyer & Huckleberry Finn) Huckleberry Finn, a very dark book indeed, was considered the masterpiece.

United States | Saturday, 27 October 2007 at 2:56 pm

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