There is an intimate relationship between our income wealth and our sexual culture.
According to a New York Times editorial this week, “As
Housing Goes, So Goes the Economy”. It is a call to the United States
government to intervene in the housing market which, nearly two years after the
housing bubble burst, is still in trouble and will not, says the Times, fix
That may be so in the short term, but a report published today
by the Family Research Council suggests that the long-term fix for the economy must
come from another quarter. Tweaking foreclosure rules may make it possible for more
people to keep their homes, but it is the relationships within the home that
ultimately determine prosperity. It is more the case that, “As the family goes,
so goes the economy”.
As we know, the family in western countries is not going
very well. In its introduction the FRC report points out that people have a
reduced capacity for the intimate social relationships that marriage demands.
Most American parents
cannot stand each other enough to raise the children they have brought into existence.
In 2008, only 45 percent of American seventeen-year-olds were in a family
headed by their biological parents, leaving them weaker in their relational
capacities than prior generations. The numbers are lowest among
African-Americans, where only 17 percent of seventeen-year-olds have spent
childhood in an intact family. Among Asian Americans the intact family is
strongest, but even for them it is only 62 per cent.
Some people claim that family breakdown and the rise of cohabitation
is nothing more than growing pains experienced as the family changes and
becomes more diverse. Laws, social policy and the economy have to catch up with
the evolution of the family, they say.
In sharp contention with that view is the title of the report:
"Marriage and Economic Well-Being: The Economy of the Family Rises or Falls with
Marriage". Authors Patrick F Fagan, Andrew J Kidd and Henry Potrykus have
analysed federal data and academic studies and demonstrate their case convincingly:
the family based on a lasting marriage (the “intact married family”)
outperforms other sexual partnering structures -- by a mile.
Consider a few examples:
* Married couple families generate the most income -- twice
that of divorced households and four times that of separated households,
according to one study.
* Intact, married families have the greatest net worth --
not just because they have two adults but because they have a longer-term
outlook, are more thrifty and increase the earning ability of the
head-of-household. Cohabiters have the lowest net worth growth of all family structures.
* Children in married, two-parent families enjoy more
economic well-being than those in any other family structure, and are more
likely to rise through the socio-economic ranks. A non-intact family background
increases by over 50 per cent a boy’s odds of ending up in the lowest rank.
The marriage premium
It is not difficult to understand how single parenthood, separation
and divorce (especially for the custodial parent) impoverish people, creating a
variety of social costs as well. But it is much harder for people today --
especially young adults -- to grasp the fact that cohabitation is not just marriage
minus the wedding. In what follows I focus on the light that the report throws
on this common misunderstanding.
Cohabiters who break up one or more times must have some
inkling that an uncommitted relationship is a financial risk, but what they won’t
easily understand is what economists call the “marriage premium” -- the
increase in a husband’s productivity and earnings actually caused by entering marriage.
Fagan and colleagues put the marriage premium at 27 per
cent, based on a study that controlled for all factors, including genetics. On
average, married fathers work more hours per week than cohabiting fathers, and the
economist Gary Becker in his Treatise on the Family (1991) argues “that working
longer incentivises a worker to increase his productivity (to reap further
income benefits)”, the report notes. Young married men are more likely to be in
the workforce, employed and working a full-time job than their non-married counterparts.
Interestingly, the marital advantage does not hold at the
same level in the step-family, where men make about 15 per cent less, and it is
outstripped by dual-earner married families, which generally earn the most
(The fact that the marriage premium accrues to men will
immediately devalue it in the eyes of gender egalitarians, who hew to the model
of “equal partners in everything”. Economics, and feminism, have yet to account
adequately for the value of the wife who works at home, but an Australian study
indicates a reduction in the husband’s earnings of 7 to 13 per cent when his
wife works full-time. In any case there is a “marriage premium” for the married
woman: when her household income -- family income divided by the poverty line
-- is compared to that of women single through divorce or non-marriage, she
comes out well ahead.)
In contrast with the employment and earning advantages of married
men, the report shows that cohabiting men tend to have “less stable employment
histories than single and married men. Cohabiting fathers are less likely to
have consistent, full-time work than are married fathers, and are less likely
to work long hours.”
Cohabiting households have lower incomes than married-parent
households. Mothers who cohabit have lower incomes than mothers in a married
step-family, although cohabiting women work more hours as their partners’
income increases. “Furthermore, cohabiting couples in the United States are 3.6
times more likely to keep separate bank accounts than married couples are.”
Family structure and
Married households are ahead here too:
A family’s net worth
is the value of all its assets minus any liabilities it holds. Married households
tend to have the largest net worth, but the difference is due to more than the
mere presence of two adults in the household. Data on asset formation show very
significant differences in the economic strength of the married family compared
to divorced, cohabiting, and always-single parent families.
The net worth advantage of marriage, which includes year to
year net worth growth, is particularly strong for black couples in the US, the
report notes, and even holds in much poorer countries such as Guatemala.
Married couple households are the most likely of all to own a house and to have
other investment and savings plans.
By contrast, cohabiters have significantly less wealth:
Older cohabiters who
have never been married have, on average, 78 percent less net worth than those
in intact families. Cohabiters who have been divorced once or widowed once have
68 percent less net worth than intact families. Cohabiters have the lowest net
worth growth of all family structures; their net worth growth is comparable to
that of widows and widowers.
Poverty, welfare and
Using US Census Bureau poverty thresholds, Fagan and
colleagues find that, “Poverty is principally the problem of non-intact family
structures.” And although single and divorced mothers feature most prominently
in poverty and welfare statistics, cohabiting households also tend to be poorer.
Poverty rates are
significantly higher among cohabiting families than among married families.
Analysis of the 1997 and 1999 waves of the National Survey of America’s
Families showed that the poverty rates of cohabiting parents were 7.5-15.4
percentage points higher than those of married, two-parent families. The rate of
poverty was 12.7-23.8 percent higher for single-parent families with another
adult present than for married-parent families.
So, what about the children? Many studies have shown that
kids are not “all right” emotionally or behaviourally in just any family
structure, and the same is true for their economic mobility and well-being. Once
again the data shows that children in married families fare far better than
their counterparts in other familial structures. “Marriage among the very poor
helps them leave poverty and keep their children from entering the ‘low income
state’…” In addition these children are more likely to be upwardly mobile.
With cohabiting families the trend seems to be the reverse. The
report notes an increasing “likelihood that a child in a ‘cohabiting intact’
family will be living in poverty.” And, “Nearly 25 per cent of children in
cohabiting households receive public assistance (compared to less than 5 per
cent of children in married-parent households).” Mothers who cohabit
after a divorce tend to reduce poverty for their children, but this does not
always happen: 29 per cent of mothers who cohabit after a divorce remain
On the subject of cohabitation the report concludes:
relationships are frequently unstable and of short duration. Cohabitation produces
weaker economic outcomes than marriage, according to all economic metrics examined
in this paper. Cohabiting men have less stable employment histories than married
men, and cohabiting couples earn less and are less likely to pool their incomes
than married households. They also have low net worth and low net worth growth,
are more likely to be poor, and create a less stable environment for children,
compared to married households.
While it can be argued that economic changes have made it much
more difficult for people at the lower end of the economic scale to marry --
because of the loss of the traditional male jobs -- it is also possible, if not
probable, that the economy would not have left half as many people behind had
marriage not been sidelined by the sexual revolution and all that went with it:
recreational sex, the possibility of single parenthood on welfare, easy divorce,
and the imperative that women earn their own income even when they become
It is difficult to argue with the conclusion of the Marriage
and Economic Well-Being report:
wealth and hence poverty are largely a matter of choice in America today -- the
choice of marriage and pathways to it… Choice about marriage is mainly a choice
about how to handle our sexual capacities and our sexual relationships...
There is an intimate
relationship between our income and wealth and our sexual culture. They rise or
fall together, and thus, strange though it may seem, there is a significant
connection between our sexual culture and our national economic strengths and
and Economic Well-Being: The Economy of the Family Rises or Falls with Marriage.”
By Patrick F Fagan, Andrew J Kidd and Henry Potrykus. Patrick Fagan is Senior
Fellow and Director of The Marriage and Religion Research Institute (MARRI) of
the Family Research Council.
Carolyn Moynihan is deputy editor of MercatorNet.