WEDNESDAY, 3 DECEMBER 2014

The Obama girls are bored

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It’s not often that President Obama’s daughters get a bad rap, but they were certainly targeted over the weekend by GOP Communications Director, Elizabeth Lauten. And it wasn’t long before the cyber world was up in arms about her comments on their uninterested behaviour during the Presidential turkey pardon ceremony (a Thanksgiving tradition).  

I watched the video, and to be honest, I laughed a little bit. These are teenage girls and so, naturally, standing still at a somewhat tedious event and looking thrilled about it might not be making the top of their to-do list. But I don’t know if they merited the following, rather harsh, comments:

"Dear Sasha and Malia, I get your [sic] both in those awful teen years but you're a part of the First Family. Try showing a little class. At least respect the part you play. Then again, your mother and father don't respect their positions very… click here to read whole article and make comments

 

MONDAY, 1 DECEMBER 2014

Arguing in front of the kids – good or bad?

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Arguing in front of the kids. As long as I can remember, I’ve thought it was a bad thing. At least, I heard that it was a bad thing and accepted the fact: it made sense after all. But now there’s new research to say that it may be a good thing – a means of equipping kids to deal with the realities of life and giving them examples of how to manage conflict. And yet, I have to say that I’m not convinced.

First though, we should define the term “argument.” I’m not talking a civil, controlled rational discussion about the point of disagreement (this would be a great lesson in conflict resolution). I’m talking raised voices: a verbally aggressive, insult-throwing, and possibly object-throwing, screaming match or anything worse, that’s unlikely to end in a pleasant way.

This is a situation where a couple are acting anything but lovingly towards… click here to read whole article and make comments


 

THURSDAY, 27 NOVEMBER 2014

CEOs and religion

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execPepsico CEO Indra Nooyi. NICHOLAS KAMM—AFP/Getty Images

 

CEOs and faith. They’re two things we don’t usually associate, probably because people are careful to keep their personal lives as separate as possible from their work lives.

But last week I read a Time article about seven religious CEOs and It made me think – it makes sense. So many of the good qualities of a good leader (or CEO) not only stem from some belief system, but are also super helpful to doing the job well. Looking at the CEOs featured in the article, here are some examples:

Indra Nooyi of PepsiCo - Hindu

 ‘…cited her Hindu faith as a source of solace from the storms of guilt and stress…”There are times when the stress is so incredible between office and home, trying to be a wife, mother, daughter-in-law and corporate… click here to read whole article and make comments


 

MONDAY, 24 NOVEMBER 2014

A daughter’s anniversary reminds us that contraceptives can kill

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erikaThere is one anniversary that Karen and Rick Langhart would prefer never to remember, but how could they forget? Three years ago today, their beloved daughter, at the age of 24, succumbed to a fatal double massive pulmonary embolism. Erika Langhart (pictured, right) was a successful and passionate young woman who had graduated magna cum laude from American University and was planning to go to Georgetown Law School. NuvaRing, a hormonal contraceptive manufactured by the giant pharmaceutical company Merck, was the cause of her death.

“If you knew Erika, it was her spirit that made the biggest impression,” as a friend of hers wrote posthumously. “Erika put her heart into her relationships with her friends and family.” Erika is not forgotten by her parents, who like any parents who have lost a child, try to cope best they can. “We don’t speak about Erika in the past,” Karen told us in a phone call.… click here to read whole article and make comments


 

MONDAY, 17 NOVEMBER 2014

Marriage vs. smoking

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The News Story - Massachusetts town could be first in the U.S. to ban all tobacco sales

Policymakers have long sought ways to reduce the incidence of tobacco use, but one town in Massachusetts is considering perhaps the most drastic measure of all.
 
Residents of Westminster are debating a proposed ban on all nicotine and tobacco products. “But,” reports The Associated Press, “while public health groups are lauding the proposal, smokers, their advocates and shopkeepers alike are fuming.” While some residents believe that private behavior should not be legislated, others worry about the economic effects that will certainly follow if smokers begin driving elsewhere to feed their addictions. Asks one shopkeeper, “If this passes, what could be next? Sugar? Bacon?”
 
But research indicates that until the residents of Westminster—and the rest of the country—reconsider beliefs on marriage and family, remedies such as… click here to read whole article and make comments


 

THURSDAY, 13 NOVEMBER 2014

Positive peer pressure - four tips

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Over the weekend, 19-year old Georgina Bartter collapsed and died at a Sydney music festival from a suspected adverse reaction to drugs. Reading that awful story in a Sydney Morning Herald article, one quote stood out to me – “She had allergies and it was extremely out of character."

It stood out to me for two reasons – because of the obvious pull of peer pressure that ended in tragic loss of life; but also because just that weekend, a teenage girl was asking me how to discourage her friends from getting involved in unhealthy behaviours: such as substance abuse, excessive drinking, and casual sexual encounters.

This kind of thing really goes to show how important it is to teach your kids the dangers of certain social activities. But I think it suggests a step further: teenagers should be taught how to talk to their friends about substance abuse and other… click here to read whole article and make comments


 

FRIDAY, 7 NOVEMBER 2014

You are not yourself on the Pill

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About 10 years ago I attended an intensive personal development program. It involved activities from rope courses in southern California to building outhouses in a homeless camp in Mexico. The goal was to develop qualities such as courage, compassion, vulnerability. In one exercise, I had to stand in front of my five team mates, all sitting in a circle, and express a very personal desire so that the mere energy coming out of me would make them stand up all at once. We were in a room where about 50 other teams were doing the same. After a few attempts, I got my team to rise as one and the whole room to hear when I exclaimed with the power of conviction: “I want to be myself!”

Being myself now is amazing. I am more realistic and real, think with more clarity and decisiveness, know… click here to read whole article and make comments


 

FRIDAY, 7 NOVEMBER 2014

In good times and in bad

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About six months before I started dating my fiancé, I was pretty fed up with guys. My recent dates had not quite been up to scratch. So I wrote a list of what I was looking for – corny, I know – but something that helped me to get the frustration out and remind myself of what I deserved.

Generous, honest, a hard worker, confident - the list certainly wasn’t shallow. But there was one thing that I probably missed: could I suffer with them?

This week I read a great article on how the most overlooked characteristic we look for in a mate is whether we can suffer with them. At the beginning of a relationship, it’s normal to focus on the positive side of things, especially as everything is exciting and the future seems to have a rose-tinged glow, full of possibility. But the fact of the matter is… click here to read whole article and make comments


 

WEDNESDAY, 5 NOVEMBER 2014

More marriage, stronger economy

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The News Story - Being married has a lot to do with economic success, scholars say

Nationally syndicated columnist Michelle Singletary trumpeted the results of a new study by W. Bradford Wilcox and Robert I. Lerman this week that demonstrated that the retreat from marriage has a lot to do with the state of our national economy.
 
Summarizing their findings, Singleton writes that “stable, two-parent families decrease the chance of people ending up impoverished. . . . The median income of families with children would have been 44 percent higher in 2012 had we had the same level of married parenthood as we did in the 1980s, the report says.”  Singleton agrees, arguing that her own marriage is testament to the institution’s ability to pull men and women alike into better economic situations than they would have expected.  The gap between rich and poor will only… click here to read whole article and make comments


 

MONDAY, 3 NOVEMBER 2014

Childbirth rids you of creativity – true or false?

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“I would have been either 100 per cent mother or 100 per cent artist. I am not flaky and I don’t compromise…There are good artists that have children… they are called men.” These are the recent comments of English artist, Tracey Emin, who thinks that having children could be the difference between being a good artist or a great artist – as in, you can’t be a great artist if you have kids.

Anyone else's hackles raised in feminist indignation? Luckily not just mine - as evident by a comeback article by artist, Venus Backfire. She says: “As both a female artist, represented by a respected London gallery, and a mother, I don’t know what I find more offensive; that I can no longer be “good,” that I am perceived as “flaky,” or that I am apparently unable to commit fully to either my child or career.” And doesn’t she… click here to read whole article and make comments


 

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