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Pregnancy pact, or loss of direction behind high school mothers?
Naturally, authorities and the media have been keen to diagnose the underlying cause of the pregnancy spike in Gloucester, pact or no pact. Time’s report focuses on the “fiercely Catholic” character of the coastal town’s population and its opposition to making birth control easier to access. The school has a clinic offering pregnancy tests but the hospital which funds the clinic refused a bid by the nurse and doctor running it to offer contraceptives to students -- without parental consent if necessary. The two of them resigned. Time thinks the school “has done perhaps too good a job of embracing young mothers” -- teen parents are encouraged to take their children to a free on-site day-care centre -- and not a good enough job of sex education. An important factor in the girls’ attitude may be the decline of the local fishing industry and its effect on families. “Families are broken,” says a school official. “Many of our young people are growing up directionless.” Motherhood seems to be one answer to that, and hit movies such as Juno and Knocked Up glamorise young, unwed mothers. One teenage mother recently graduated from Gloucester High School says the girls are “excited to finally have someone to love them unconditionally” -- meaning the baby, not the largely invisible males behind the scenes. But if those reasons are important, contraceptives are not going to be the answer. Says Sarah Brown of the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy: “This is not a story about sex education. This is a story about a failure to take childbirth seriously. These girls could have had condoms distributed in their living rooms, and they would still have gotten pregnant.” ~ Time, June 18; USA Today, June 22
Comments (1)David Page said...United States | Wednesday, 25 June 2008 at 12:06 pm Page 1 of 1 : New comment |
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Carolyn, it turns out the story isn’t true. The principal who reported it now has memory problems. The teenage pregnancy rate is up sharply from last year but is the same as it was four years ago. Some of the girls made a pact to support each other after they were already pregnant.
Carolyn Moynihan wrote: “One teenage mother recently graduated from Gloucester High School says the girls are “excited to finally have someone to love them unconditionally”—meaning the baby, not the largely invisible males behind the scenes.”
Or their worthless parents. It bothers me that the news media here in Massachusetts has blamed the girls, the boys, the economy, the schools and the Catholic Church. It’s the parents. Well loved children raised in stable homes manage to keep their pants on and could get a good education in a drafty barn. (I have to add here that I consider gay and lesbian parents to be quite capable of providing loving, stable homes.) I think it one of the oddities of modern life that most people seem incapable of telling bad parents that they are not very good at the most important job they’ll ever do. This is especially true in the schools. A teacher once told one of my daughters that she could tell my daughter came from a good home. I was very pleased and flattered. What the teacher could never do, except among themselves, is say that troubled children come from troubled homes. The net result is that these poor children, especially the girls, are blamed and abandoned because of being born into a life that they did not create. Girls who are promiscuous feel unloved and unwanted. When a young girl feels that way it’s because of the parents. And of course children never blame their parents for an unhappy home. They blame themselves, and that just makes everything worse.