November
13
  9:57:00 AM

The inability to truly debate

On November 7th I felt a sense of relief that the American political campaigns were over and I would no longer have to watch heated television debates, read through political rants on Facebook and avoid long conversations that easily turned to bitter arguments. But even after the elections determined President Obama would have another four-year term, the angry debates continued. And all of this had me thinking, we have lost the ability to debate rationally.

The presidential debates were the perfect proof. Both Romney and Obama interrupted the other, tried to talk over each other, made faces, scoffed, chuckled and otherwise berated their opponent. The civilized back and forth that a classic debate calls for was nowhere in sight. The two candidates went for personal attacks and barbs over rational thought and explanations.

And it didn’t end there. The debates went to Facebook and other social media outlets. I’m all for sharing your thoughts and opinions, but why can’t we do that with adding insults to the mix? It seemed as though it was impossible to place a political comment on Facebook without being bombarded by rude counter positions. I know several people who unfriended others on Facebook because of such encounters.

The same went for personal exchanges. A political conversation might start off as civil but very rapidly it would escalate to an argument. In the end, both parties would leave hurt, offended or frustrated. If we had the ability to have a truly rational debate these conversations could have gone very differently.



comments powered by Disqus
 
about this blog | Bookmark and Share

Search this blog

 Subscribe to Tiger Print newsletter
rss Subscribe to Tiger Print RSS feed

 Recent Posts
Words that still matter
18 Feb 2013
No time for Valentine’s blues
17 Feb 2013
New Adult books and the message of love
1 Feb 2013
Rise of the online bully
13 Jan 2013
What’s your word for 2013?
11 Jan 2013

 MercatorNet blogs
Population issues: Demography is Destiny
Family social policy: Family Edge
US political scene: Sheila Liaugminas
News about bioethics: BioEdge
From the editors: Conniptions

 Archive
Feb 2013 | Jan 2013 | Dec 2012 | more >>

  From MercatorNet's home page

Foreign policy, the solace of failed presidents
19 Nov 2014
Gridlock on the domestic front often leads to rash decisions abroad.

Redeeming the world’s darkness with the radiance of love
18 Nov 2014
A British rabbi's brilliant speech on the history of marriage.

The father who fell in love with the stranger who bore his child
18 Nov 2014
A donor dad story that shows the power of biological ties.

If the mindfulness craze is really so cool, why did Anders Breivik use it?
17 Nov 2014
Meditation techniques can help stressed-out executives, but they are open to abuse.

Losses disguised as wins
17 Nov 2014
Here's the science behind casino profits.


 Tags
designer, DIY, business, running, attire, facebook, social experiment, how-to, cleaning, accessories, tips, food, riots, authors, primary school, makeup, celebrity culture, Love and Fidelity Network, human dignity, Thanksgiving, marijuana, trend, religion, protes, underpriveleged, job, color, sexism, matchmaking, lessons, phones, new year, Grammys, Mothers, society, childlessness, blogs, personhood, iPad, research, language, chivalry, drinks, games, social network, interview,, feminism, tan, Eminem, book, bracelet, elections, TV, sweater, Harvard, sportsmanship, family, books, Target, graduates, beauty, interview, eyes, focal point, Roe v. Wade, generation gap, 911 Memorial, bikini, violence, gratitude, summer, suitcase, marines, United States, television, magazines, insurance, truth, teens, phone, gifts, Australia, college, time, email, relationships, homosexual marriage, London, packing, maturity, distance education, parenting, pro-life, weight loss, students, musician, friends, daughters, size, twitter,
Follow MercatorNet
Facebook
Twitter
Newsletters
Sections and Blogs
Harambee
PopCorn
Conjugality
Careful!
Family Edge
Sheila Reports
Reading Matters
Demography Is Destiny
Conniptions (the editorial)
Information
our ideals
our People
Mercator who?
partner sites
audited accounts
donate
New Media Foundation
Suite 12A, Level 2
5 George Street
North Strathfield NSW 2137
Australia

editor@mercatornet.com
+61 2 8005 8605
skype: mercatornet
© New Media Foundation 2014 | powered by Encyclomedia | designed by Elleston