Will gays benefit from same-sex marriage?

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Is there
anything of substance to be gained for homosexuals from the current quest for same-sex

At its
inception, the “gay rights” movement could reasonably present itself as a struggle
against societal oppression. Forty years ago, American law in most states punished
homosexual acts as criminal offenses. In many cases the penalties attending such
laws were severe. In Bowers v. Hardwick—the 1986 Supreme Court decision upholding
Georgia’s anti-sodomy statute—Justice Lewis Powell observed with understandable
concern that the law at issue in that case permitted a sentence of up to twenty
years in prison for the commission of a single homosexual act.

In addition
to such a legal landscape, homosexuals confronted a rather censorious culture. Mainstream
America not only looked upon homosexual acts with disapproval, but also treated
homosexual persons as objects of ridicule (at best) and hostility (at worst).

is not to concede the claim often deployed by gay rights activists that such traditional
laws and mores were based upon nothing but an irrational and malicious hatred of
homosexuals. Such a claim unjustly overlooks ancient philosophical and religious
beliefs that deeply influenced the Western understanding of the purposes of human
sexuality, an understanding that included principled grounds upon which to view
homosexual acts as morally disordered. It is, after all, hardly plausible that such
beliefs were invented for no other reason than to justify hatred of homosexuals.
It is to admit, however, that society’s earlier strictures against homosexuality
could reasonably be viewed—even by those who still today disapprove of homosexual
conduct—as uncharitable and excessively punitive.

today face a markedly changed legal and cultural environment. Criminal anti-sodomy
statutes, seldom enforced in the first place, have now been declared unconstitutional
by the Supreme Court in Lawrence v. Texas
(2003). Moreover, the Lawrence decision
has been greeted by very little protest even from the most conservative defenders
of traditional sexual morality, most of whom, despite their disapproval of homosexual
acts, have no interest in seeing such acts punished as crimes. Indeed, American
culture overall is more tolerant of homosexuality now than it has ever been. The
ridicule and anger that homosexuals once faced is no longer mainstream but is now
itself the object of mainstream disapproval.

these changes, the gay rights movement persists. Having succeeded in changing American
law and culture to such a remarkable extent in such a short time, it has moved on
to a new quest, the quest for same-sex marriage. This new goal is different in kind
from the ones already achieved: it is not so much a demand to be freed from evils
imposed by society as it is a demand for positive public benefits, specifically
the benefits that attend marriage.

It is
a mistake, however, to think that the same-sex marriage movement is aimed primarily
at acquiring the material benefits and legal prerogatives that accompany
publicly recognized marriage. The aim, rather, is equality of public recognition or approval.

is most obvious in the ongoing federal lawsuit brought against California’s constitutional
provision defining marriage as a union of one man and one woman, a suit that has
no other object but equal recognition
of—that is, equal public
status or honor for—homosexual relationships. California already has a law recognizing
the domestic partnerships of committed homosexual couples. That law affords homosexual
relationships some measure of public status, and it bestows upon them the same legal
benefits as heterosexual marriage. The extent of California’s legal “discrimination”
against homosexuals, then, is that the state has sought to reserve a traditional
and honorable title for heterosexual unions. This is all that is at issue in the
Proposition Eight lawsuit, and it demonstrates that the aim of the same-sex marriage
activists behind it is equality of public recognition.

It is
not clear, however, that the quest for same-sex marriage offers any substantive
good to those on whose behalf it is so insistently demanded. Put another way, it
is hard to see why such an absolute equality of public recognition should be essential
to the happiness of homosexuals.

me explain.

strongest argument against same-sex marriage—in the sense of the argument with the
deepest philosophic roots, or the argument that gets to the most fundamental issues
at stake—is that homosexual activity is contrary to the natural law. This argument
is either true, or it is not. If it is true, then publicly sanctioned same-sex marriage
will contribute nothing substantial to the happiness of homosexuals. There are various
understandings of natural law, but all present the natural law as a reality that
exists independent of human opinion, a rule for human flourishing that human beings
can ignore only at their own peril.

On this
view, the real issue in human happiness is the moral quality of our lives and not
how they are regarded by society at large. As Socrates explains to his young interlocutors
in Plato’s Republic, the actual being
of the soul, and not its
mere seeming, is decisive for human happiness. That is
to say, happiness is the fruit of the proper functioning of the human soul, so that
character, and not reputation or opinion, is the source of genuine flourishing.
On this understanding, Socrates explains, a just soul, one ruled according to reason,
is happier than an unjust one, regardless of whatever praises are heaped upon the
successfully unjust man by a corrupted public opinion.

if homosexual conduct really is, as its natural law critics contend, a perversion
of human desires and capacities, a wrenching of them away from their natural purposes,
then such conduct will be a source of frustration and unhappiness regardless of
whether society bestows its “recognition,” and hence its approval, on it. On this
view, there is nothing of substance to be gained from same-sex marriage even for
homosexuals. Indeed, if traditional natural law theorists are correct in their assessment
of homosexual conduct, then same-sex marriage would be not only pointless but positively
damaging, to the extent that it could mislead people to their own harm by bestowing
a spurious respectability on an objectively disordered way of life.

of course the proponents of same-sex marriage adamantly deny the truth of the traditional
natural law critique of homosexual conduct. On the contrary, they hold that this
natural law critique is, despite its philosophic pretensions, a mere prejudice with
no basis in nature or reason. For them, homosexual relationships are naturally enriching
to those who desire them, and for that reason they deserve the same public recognition
that heterosexual unions enjoy. Once again, however, Socrates’ point about the priority
of nature to opinion, or of being to seeming, of soul to reputation, indicates that,
if this view is correct, same-sex marriage would be nothing more than a needless
addition to a naturally fulfilling undertaking.

In Socrates’
time, the philosophic life was largely held in disrepute, thought to be the province
of the unmanly and the politically unserious. According to Socrates, however, this
negative reputation posed no serious impediment to his happiness precisely because
the pursuit of wisdom is by nature a source, indeed the highest source, of human

To take
a less lofty example, contemporary American society loads massive amounts of attention
and honor on sports at all levels, and hardly any at all on chess. This huge disparity
in recognition, however, makes no difference at all to the true chess lover: precisely
because he experiences chess as fulfilling his natural faculties and desires he
has no interest in what other people think about his love for the game. Indeed,
if the supposed lover of chess were to demand indignantly that his activity deserves
recognition on a par with other games, we would rightly suspect that there is, in
fact, some deficiency in the intrinsic satisfactions of chess that he seeks to make
up through the more superficial satisfactions of recognition or public honor.

In sum,
if our activities are the genuine seat of happiness, then the quest for “recognition”
of same-sex unions is really just the pursuit not of a reality but of a mere appearance.

preceding argument does not hold that reputation is a matter of complete indifference.
We are sociable beings. Hence we crave honor and feel the sting of disgrace. Accordingly,
gays would be pursuing something of serious value if they were trying to overcome
disgrace. But they do not now live in disgrace. Their lives are now viewed as a
legitimate minority alternative. Their being known as homosexuals does not preclude
their winning public recognition on other grounds. They are, again, merely seeking
equality of public recognition. But this is not a making up of some serious deficiency,
and it is in fact the kind of mild lack that is endured by everyone who pursues
some love that is tolerated but not wholly understood or endorsed by the public
at large. (We might also add that it is strange for a movement that began by presenting
itself as a bold repudiation of conventional morality now to be demanding conventional

is, moreover, a further emptiness in this quest for equal recognition. The progress
of same-sex marriage in American politics has been almost entirely the result not
of legislation but of litigation. The final, national victory of same-sex marriage,
if it comes, will come as the result of a ruling of the Supreme Court of the United
States issued not only without the consent of a majority of Americans, but even
against the legally expressed will of majorities in a majority of states. Public
recognition of same-sex marriage is demanded as a sign of equal public acceptance,
but the mode in which it is being sought ensures that the acceptance will be fraudulent.
It will be in fact not a public acceptance but the acceptance of a legal and
political elite that is able to force its will on the public.

the substantial—unprecedented, in fact—toleration and freedom that homosexuals already
enjoy, and given the inevitable sense of grievance that a victory through litigation
will produce in the defenders of traditional marriage, the proponents of same-sex
marriage should ask themselves whether it is really worthwhile to exert themselves
so much, and to so roil the politics of their country, in the pursuit of absolute
equality of recognition.

Carson Holloway is political
scientist and the author most recently of The Way of Life: John Paul II and the Challenge
of Liberal Modernity
(Baylor University Press).
This article has been reprinted with permission from Public Discourse.


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